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The End of Reason (Part 1). Why euthanasia is unreasonable, uncompassionate, unloving, and discriminatory.

People have the right to bodily autonomy; therefore, they should be able to do whatever they want with their own bodies.

If people are suffering, they should have the right to alleviate their own suffering by any reasonable means, including medically assisted suicide (euthanasia).

The Canadian government recently announced that they will be withholding offering MaiD (medical assistance in dying) to mature minors – people under the age of 18 (children) who have the mental capacity to reasonably make an informed decision about their life.

The flood gates have long opened in Canada to offering people a way out of their suffering (or perceived suffering).

 

Is supporting euthanasia a reasonable position to hold?

Is supporting euthanasia a reasonable position to hold? To answer this question we have to set aside our emotions and answer some questions.

First, is body autonomy absolute? Or does it have limits?

Second, is suicide a good solution to suffering?

Third, what is human dignity? What is the source of human dignity? Why treat human with dignity?

Fourth, what is compassion?

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Bodily Autonomy

I agree that people should be able to do with their bodies whatever they want. Even if I as a Christian believe that our bodies are not our own and are temples for God’s Spirit, not everyone may believe this.  For example, if people want to get tattoos, piercings, or try a fringe hairstyle, they can; even it is offense to some.

However, bodily autonomy is not absolute. Suppose people who have body identity integrity disorder and they have an deep seeded desire to become blind, paralyzed, or an amputee, should doctors be legally required to fulfil their patients’ desires? Most medical professionals would not destroy healthy body parts on a healthy human being. Medical practitioners’ job is to be life-giving and life-affirming, not life-denying or life-destructive. There is a sense of how we as humans aught to be, which takes precedent over how we want to be.

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How To Make Peace In An Evil World

Reflection & Prayer – January 7, 2020 

 

So… What Now?

 

A reading from the first letter of St. John:

 

For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome. 4For whatever is born of God overcomes the world; and this is the victory that overcomes the world, our faith.

 

Reflection

 

Did you turn on the TV last night or look at your phone? How did you feel?

 

Typically, when a new year starts one tries to be optimistic. After a year violence, economic instability and health crises I feel emotionally drained? For some of you all these challenges were additional weight to personal challenges. For some of you, what you saw last night is the last thing you needed and may have crushed any reminisce of optimism you had for the new year. 

So what now? 

 

Let me share with you a brief story.

 

An Unintended Friendship

 

Seven years ago the director of a retirement home asked me to lead a Remembrance Day prayer service for their residence. 

 

At the end of the prayer service I met a man who was a former Canadian navy officer in the Second World War. He was stationed on a battleship in the North Atlantic Ocean. One day they captured a German submarine. After the submarine pulled up next to their ship, the Canadian officer recalled how he opened the hatch of the submarine to find the Nazi soldiers ready to die. One of the Nazi soldiers spoke English, so through him, the Canadian sailors were able to give them instruction. 

 

When the German soldiers came on board, the Canadian sailors didn’t shoot them and throw them overboard, but gave them food, conversed and even played cards with them. 

 

The former Canadian sailor was the son of German immigrants. To his surprise, he discovered that one of the German soldiers they captured was his cousin. What are the chances?! He told me that the rest of the time out at sea, it was like a family reunion. No hate, no anger, but laughter. 

 

The retired navy officer told me that it didn’t take long for his Canadian crew and German soldiers to ask each other, “What the hell are we even doing?”.  In other words, what’s the purpose of all this violence? 

 

The Victory that Overcomes Evil

 

This encounter between the two men is an example of Christ’s great commandment lived out: “Love God above all things; and love others as yourself.” 

 

In today’s reading, the apostle John writes, “For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments.”

 

John then continues to say, “For his commandments are not burdensome.” Was this encounter a burden on the Canadian sailor? No! In fact, it was the opposite, it led to reconciliation. Yet, if his crew executed the German soldiers, that violence and hatred may have haunted him for the rest of his life. 

 

John then concludes with the words, “…this, is the victory that overcomes the world. Faith.” In the Bible “the world” is characterized as being under the influence of satan (the devil; the great deceiver). St. Paul writes, “Satan, who is the god of this world, has blinded the minds of those who don’t believe. They are unable to see the glorious light of the Good News (2 Corinthians 4:4). 

 

Not only did this man overcome hate, but by his love, he conquered evil…he conquered the devil, just as Christ did. The man was a devout Christian. 

 

So what to do? If you want peace in the world, start by loving those people whom God has placed in front of you every day, even if you find it difficult. For many of you, that’s your friends, teachers and families.

 

Mother Teresa once said, “If you want peace in the world, go home and love your family.” 

 

Let us pray,

 

Prince of Peace, today we pray for the peace in our hearts, in our minds, and in our actions. In the world that is struggling to find meaning and often itself witnessing deliberate acts of violence, help us to be peacemakers. Grant us the wisdom, insight and prudence to be able to distinguish the need and necessity to resolve issues and conflicts without violence. Grant us the vision to recognize that although we are all unique and different, we share a commonality rooted in our humanity, dignity, and worth. Help us to embrace the model that you lived and to love one another as you continue to love us. Amen. 

 

Weekend Scripture Reflection: What is Holiness?

If I were to ask you if you consider yourself to a holy person, how would you respond?

I think it’s safe to say that most of us would hesitate labeling ourselves as holy because over time “holiness” has come to be associated with images of hypocrisy in the Church.

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Desire Jesus

Holiness is the desire to be like Jesus. Holiness is less of a state of being and more of a disposition of the heart. Do you desire to be more like Jesus? If the answer is “yes”, then you are holy. If holiness was dependent upon perfection, then no one would be holy.. Pope Francis refers to the Church as a “hospital for sinners.” If everyone had the capacity to be perfect there would be no need for a church and we would still be living in the Garden of Eden. It is possible to be holy and yet still find ourselves being hypocritical. In fact every time we sin, whether it’s visually apparent to others or not, we are being hypocrites. If you’re a hypocrite then you’re in the right place. Jesus established the Church for you and for me.

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A World That Forgot How to Love

I love you, you love me we’re together a happy family.” As I’m sure you know, these are the popular lyrics of the childhood friendly purple dinosaur, Barney.  

As a child when I first saw Barney singing this song as he danced away with children my own age around him I felt very weird about watching it. There was something wrong with the lyrics (never mind a grown man in a purple dinosaur costume dancing). As a five year old I couldn’t put a finger on what was bothering me about it. But one thing I did know was whatever “love”  Barney was singing about wasn’t real love.

In hindsight, this love was very superficial. It totally ignored the reality of authentic love. The ugly side of it that requires real sacrifice, perseverance, and faith. It didn’t give me hope a child. I couldn’t relate it to my experience.

God is Love?

It seems it’s this “Barney type of love” is what our culture chases. One that is ultimately rooted in comfort with no sense perseverance or sacrifice. And if I may say, a love that is delusional.

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